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Myq Kaplan's avatar

Dear Cory,

Thank you!

Love this: "Remember: your energy is finite. If you don’t choose where it flows, someone else will."

Happy for the energy to be flowing here!

Love

Myq

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Cory Allen's avatar

Thank you friend

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Michelle's avatar

So true! My therapist helped me come up with a mantra for those moments when I get pulled into conversations that drain me: "I am generous, but I am not limitless." It reminds me that being kind and caring is my default... but I don’t always have the capacity for everything people want from me. And that’s okay. 😊 Thanks for writing and sharing!

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Ram M.'s avatar

This article is a good reminder that conversations are also an exchange of energy. Thank you!

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Lisa Yvonne Briggins Tate's avatar

Yes! Powerful reminder: Your energy is finite!

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Jana McLoughlin's avatar

This is so well put. I appreciate it.

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Cory Allen's avatar

Thank you.

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Rebecca Moran's avatar

This makes so much sense and is a great reminder to me.. thanks 🙏

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Cory Allen's avatar

🙏🏻

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Brandon Oliver's avatar

I definitely needed this message! Thank you so much!

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Cory Allen's avatar

🖤

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Angela's avatar

Dear Cory, thank you for giving me clarity on this. I live with this exact issue right now. That’s me, nodding along but continuing to try to work on what I’m doing, but subconsciously giving up space in my head and personal energy so I don’t feel bad for not listening.

Thank you so much for the soft declines, they’re perfect!🙏🏾

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Sara Benna's avatar

Simple action but can be tricky, especially for us introverts who might have difficulty expressing ourselves with the fear of sounding rude. Good reminder to prioritize our energy, because like you said, it is certainly finite.

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